The more time I spend time with humans who have no filter and a developing brain [I mean...the ultimate beautiful combination] the more I am convinced that Maslow's hierarchy of needs should be laced with love. From bottom to top (basic to luxurious), here are our human needs:
Physiological needs - food, water, warmth and rest (our basic needs) plus love
Safety needs - security and safety and love
Belonging - relationships and friendship and love
Esteem needs - feeling of accomplishment with love
Self-actualization - achieving our full potential with love
While us humans can present ourselves as complex mammals, it is amazing what mere: time, attention and intention can do. And practicing these things can start with a few simple words, long pregnant pauses and holy eye contact. #thisislove
I am here for you.
What is on your mind right this minute?
What happened to you?
I want to understand how you are feeling.
Together, I think we can do this.
I have time for you.
Let's drop everything and talk.
Did you know what you are enough?
You are wildly loved by me.
You are wildly lover by me as well. Your words touch my soul. Your kindness is boundless. I love that I can call you friend.